Said every fatherless daughter I have ever met! Isolation is the “go to” coping mechanism of a fatherless daughter. They avoid conflict at every turn. Their fear is that if they speak their truth they run the risk of being re-abandoned. Fear is the asshole here. Don’t let it hold you hostage keeping you distant from the love or treatment you deserve.
Remember conflict leads to resolution. Give yourself the space to understand how you feel. Write down your goals for the conversation. Understand what you can and cannot live with. Know what makes your heart feel light and what causes it to feel too heavy. Inner peace is the goal here. Once you figure out what you want, step back into the issue and speak your peace. You will be better for it.
Lead with LOVE-not fear. You are meant to have BIG LOVE!