ALERT: This post may piss you off.
Let me set the stage for you. The definition of a self-fulfilled prophecy is a positive or negative expectation about circumstances, events, or people that may affect a persons behavior toward them in a manner that he or she (unknowingly) creates situations in which those expectations are fulfilled. Basically, being fatherless may have pre-programmed you for a broken heart.Down deep you may feel unworthy of a man’s love, so you go after men who cannot commit or may cheat to prove to yourself that you are indeed unloveable. Sounds harsh, right? The truth is, when a fatherless daughter finally recognizes that a man cannot fill the void of her father’s abandonment she is actually ready to heal.
And guess what? Healing is doable. It really is. You don’t have to walk this journey alone. If you are sick and tired of getting your heart broken…listen up.
It is time for you to feel better.
Decide you are ready to do the work. “Work” may not be the word you want to hear, for you have been working hard on yourself for your entire life. Working to move on. Working to rise above. Working to help others. Working to find love. Working to let him go. The thing is, you are not supposed to get over him. He is, and will always be, your father. However, you do deserve some resolution. You also deserve real love and happiness. If you are at a place where you are ready to heal, I can help!
Here are a 10 ways I recommend you getting started:
- My 6 week course. GET THE LOVE YOU WANT! – https://dennababul.com/get-the-love-you-want-course/
- Read our book, The Fatherless Daughter Project: Understanding Our Losses and Reclaiming Our Lives- https://dennababul.com/book/
- Attend my LIVE event on Saturday, November 4th or buy the viral version- https://dennababul.com/mentorship/
- Get 1:1 coaching by me-https://dennababul.com/life-coaching/
- Attend or start a group near you- https://dennababul.com/mentorship/
- Subscribe to my You Tube page to get weekly advice-https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsYpuVdQOHWFSmw_vHiRf4Q
- Join our email list
- Attend a Fatherless Daughter Retreat (info coming soon)
- Find a therapist and get started
- Begin or get back in touch with your spiritual path
The super cool part is you found your tribe right here. Life can and will get so much better once you start your healing process. You will be able to have a beautifully, fulfilling life regardless of his loss. You will be happy. You will find love. I know this because I have fought the same battles and helped others breakthrough difficult pasts in order to have fulfilling futures. I am always here to help.